Tuesday, May 5, 2009

GIRL GET YOU A GM (GROWN MAN)

Girl Get You A GM (Grown Man)

For those of you who know me you know I love quality! I love quality homes, cars, boats, and especially electronics and things that sparkle. So I got to thinking...Hmmm...I love the Motown error I love classic muscle cars. I love cigars and golf courses. I love going boating and traveling going out to eat and just enjoying life. So to be honest I have been enjoying life dating different men for different reasons. In my most recent dating escapades I found it was easier to remain sexually pure while dating a few men. For example, I may have a man that is a graduate student who I go to the bookstore with who I can have challenging conversations with. Then maybe a different man to take me out to eat at expensive restaurants this man may be a doctor, lawyer, or other professional. Then a man (who lives a different lifestyle sexually) who enjoys going shopping with me who isn't in a rush. Then a man who will go to church with me so I don't have to go by myself. Then finally a man who has a baby or children who I can help take care of...You know with homework or babysitting or whatever.
So now this is my new outlook! ENOUGH OF THAT! You see my whole mission was to keep myself busy with church activities, mentorship, or whatever so I can wait to be found. The Bible say's, "Blessed is he who finds a woman of virtue"! Key word: FIND....Meaning he will search and look so heard for God that the man God has for me will come and find me!
Now that I've laid the foundation for my topic let me dive right in! Ok I'm a 25 year old woman and this clearly is directed to women who find themselves single and complete who wouldn't mind having a partner. A man who is on your team who isn't trying to change YOU! A GM is a man who accepts you. Well at least this has been MY EXPERIENCE. Ok there are several benefits to dating a GM (Grown Man)!!!

***Let me list a few for you:
• He's experienced life and is confident!
• He has dated women so he can take you out without you thinking..."Are you serious"? Something simple like taking
you on a date can turn into a complicated situation with the wrong man regardless of AGE! Trust Me!
• He's had the benefits of dating women who have cultivated him into what he is!
• He's fine with you being you!
• He'll be patient with you and let you learn how to develop into your true womanhood.

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